Chastity Forums

Thanks for the replies! I think it's a natural cycle, but as it turns out my Queen decided to take matters into her own hands last night. Those four little magic words were uttered "You can cum tonight!". So the motor is reset. :) It's good to know though, and I'll pass on the info to her ...

My Keyholder made a funny comment to me recently. "You don't seem to be very horny." I've been locked for 6 weeks - it's a little bit of a record for us. By now I'd expect to be absolutely desperate for an orgasm, but I'm really not. It's odd. In the first few weeks all I could think of wa...

My wife has taken to wearing the key in public. We want to make some custom jewelry for her which integrates the actual key into a skeleton key somehow. She wants it to be something beautiful and functional. There's nothing hotter than seeing her with the key on. It's a total turn on when I see it o...

I believe that's the term used to describe eating your own cum. Typically your keyholder or queen might have conditions for your orgasm. For example, you can orgasm, but you'll have to lick up (or recycle) your cum. After a few weeks of teasing and denial it'll sound like a really, really fair and a...

The gym question is tricky, but some common sense can get you through it. First find loose fitting gym clothes. Second, go to a gym with shower curtains. Third wear a towel at all times. Fourth, change facing away from people. That will do it. If you run through the locker room naked with your cock ...

Sorry, this isn't the most fun post. Quick question for you veterans. We've been having longer lock ups, and I've noticed the veins in my cock/balls becoming more pronounced. Some are quite blue/purple. I figured it was due to the skin being stretched some, and it's not painful... But I wanted to ge...

We usually start play with the cage on. When she unlocks it and the tube comes off there's usually a mad rush to get it off before I get fully hard. The tube on the steelheart prevents a full erection, so I usually have a minute or so. It's sometimes tricky to get it off quickly enough. If the sessi...

God yes! Ironically I think we have more PIV while I'm in chastity than when I'm not. It's just that I'm not allowed to cum without her permission. She loves being penetrated, and would never give that up. PIV sex is just a little more complicated in chastity. She needs to unlock me and I get to was...

My 2 cents... I think you two should talk about that last interaction. I think chastity is a way to amp up sex and have fun. If either of you are inflicting emotional pain on each other as a result of slipping up, it really takes away from the fun of it. Just check in and see whether she was really ...

I think I've been posting too much if anything. I tend to write too much. I try to maintain a tumblr blog and then cross-post to my "journey" thread when it makes sense. I hope that new people find this helpful. When we were getting started (we still are), we felt like our experiences were...