Double Denial

[poor]

The denial of denial.

If our KHs were really mean, wouldn't they be giving us sex all the time?

[if53]

Especially if you ONLY enjoyed denial and you hated having an orgasm... That would be real torture!

I like that conundrum, I had to read it twice just to make sure I'd read it right!

[Scarlett's]

It doesn't happen because double denial leaves keyholders without benefits.

[poor]

Ok then, how about the much more likely;

"I'm not going to lock you up now because it would be giving you what you want and you don't like to get what you want do you?"

[if53]

That's good!

[Locked by LRC]

So, a better way to tease would be for the KH to wear the cage on a chain around their neck?

[celticqueens_sub]

The denial of denial.

If our KHs were really mean, wouldn't they be giving us sex all the time?

Along the lines of "hit me" said the masochist, "no" said the sadist...

To the orginal point, It all depends on exactly how yuu play it out as a couple.

Denial is not the driver for me, it is being controlled and used as and when CQ wants. We use the device to establish control over distance as well as to ensure I understand that CQ runs our sex life, not my cock or urges. Her total control of my orgasm ensures the relationship runs well.

[TwistedMister]

Denial is not the driver for me, it is being controlled and used...

Yeah, what he said, although as somewhat of a masochist, the frustration of forced denial has its own eroticism, which can be further enhanced by using the desire for orgasm as a motivator to compel additional behaviors as desired by the KH.