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It's funny but although Emmi is quite a strong person, I would never have said that she was at all overpowering or dominating.

And then we buy a chastity device and her true colours suddenly appear. The last two weekends she has taken charge and dictated that we do something that I never even knew was a thing until I found it in the 'terms and abbreviations' thread. I like to think that she didn't know it was a 'thing' either but I am discovering that she knows a lot more than I ever imagined.

The 'thing' that she has introduced (without even mentioning it to me, let alone asking my opinion) is listed as "CFnm". (Clothed female naked male) I bet even if she did know about it, she didn't know that there was an official abbreviation.

So we've got up and about to go about our day at home over the weekend and as I've returned from my morning shower and got dried off she has said simply "You don't need any clothes today".

Roughly translated, this means "I am in charge and don't you dare put any clothes on. I'm keeping you naked so I can enjoy watching you in your cage." She enjoyed the clear plastic of the CB6000S but I think she likes the tiny 'Nub' version of the 3D Cobra that I now wear instead.

She has done too much reading in my opinion.

Be careful what you wish for lol

MsM’s ld

KnownAsHerbert wrote: ↑Wed Apr 24, 2024 11:10 am She has done too much reading in my opinion.

And I'm still reading, KAH, so watch out.

KnownAsHerbert wrote: ↑Wed Apr 24, 2024 11:10 am ".

Roughly translated, this means "I am in charge and don't you dare put any clothes on. I'm keeping you naked so I can enjoy watching you in your cage." She enjoyed the clear plastic of the CB6000S but I think she likes the tiny 'Nub' version of the 3D Cobra that I now wear instead.

She has done too much reading in my opinion.

Miss R also prefers to see me naked.
We are naturists ourselves and can be naked at home without anyone seeing it.
Previously, clothes only came off when the temperature allowed it. But since I got a cage I'm always naked at home.
And Miss R has started to dress more and more provocatively.
So she can tease me whenever and however she wants. It took some getting used to being naked at home all the time.
But now I don't know any better anymore.
Miss R never used the term CFNM.
But maybe the term Clothed Female Naked Caged Men. be better for that.

We've nothing against nudity or naturists but typically haven't spent time at home naked very often, apart from a f ew minutes here and there, after a shower or bath, making early morning drinks or whatever. Before getting on with our day we always get dressed. Just always have, as simple as that.

So to hear that I “don't need clothes” out of the blue like that was a bit of a surprise to say the least. I honestly don't' know whether she had read about it somewhere, or just thought it up for herself. What I do know is that she liked doing it and kept it as part of our routine so it's become a new 'normal' for us.

Whether it's a power thing I also don't know but she has become very keen on having rules for me to follow since being caged. Breaking the rules bring the consequence of extending my time in the cage and bear in mind that I am still new to all of this. Just over a month into it. Maybe I'm right and it really is just a show of power or control as she remains clothed, emphasizing the feeling of being vulnerable (?) or humiliation (?) for me perhaps.

Like your KH, mine has also taken to dressing provocatively though. I guess to tease. I guess, just because she can. It's difficult or even impossible to be sure about her reasons but it's clear that she likes it and intends to keep this aspect as part of our lives now. Interesting stuff.

Oh and I like the new term: Clothed Female Naked Caged Men, CFNCM!

It is also difficult how our KH come up with ideas.

The fact that we are naked and they are clothed shows that they have the power.
We are then the suitable ones, and it also stimulates their own sex drive.
They can do to you whatever and whenever they want to tease you.
And if you have created a bad habit in their eyes, you must unlearn it immediately.

I read that you were also unconsciously touching your balls.
Also understandable, they are much more prominent and you are more aware of them.
I was also no longer allowed to touch it myself, which cost me a lot of effort.
I could only guess the reason, it is also her property.

Each time she went one step further.
She didn't like the look when I bent down, so that was also adjusted.
Her defense was not only because she liked it better, but also from a hygienic point of view.
But I can only guess whether that is the reason.

You are right, we can only guess.

I do believe the CFNCM is all about power. They know they can use that power and in my Emmi's case she has shown that she will.

It's the open-endedness of the power that is the scary bit. They can invent whatever rules they want and as you say, can do whatever they want, whenever they want to. To tease. Just for their own fun.

Wearing a cage is just the start of it, isn't it?
It's all the rest of it that you have to watch out for!

Indeed, wearing a cage is just the beginning.
Just like withholding an orgasm is just the beginning.
The more they enjoy it, the more rules are imposed.

waki86 wrote: ↑Sat May 11, 2024 1:19 am Indeed, wearing a cage is just the beginning.
Just like withholding an orgasm is just the beginning.
The more they enjoy it, the more rules are imposed.

And there's no doubt in my mind that Emmi is enjoying the whole journey very much indeed.

KnownAsHerbert wrote: ↑Sat May 11, 2024 1:22 am
And there's no doubt in my mind that Emmi is enjoying the whole journey very much indeed.

Oh yes.