My chastity has merged with my non sex life
Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2017 3:35 pm
We have been into 24/7/365 chastity for a few years now and as we have done with all previous fetishes, we confined it to the bedroom. Chastity is different since I am still locked up and teased outside of the bedroom. My wife has always been submissive in and out of the bedroom. In one aspect it has allowed me to try every fetish found on Fetlife and do all those things guys post about wishing their wives would do or have in their bucket list. My bucket is empty.
After about 4 or 5 years of chastity we are extending a sexual fetish outside of the bedroom for the first time. My wife has a new found confidence and taste of dominance from chastity. We are going to do it the same way we went from 2 weeks of orgasm denial to 4 months and now unlimited. Take baby steps. She is basically treating me like her dog. She tells me what to do and after I do it, she says good boy or bad boy. Paddling my butt is now standard before we have sex. The length and severity will depend on if I was a bad boy that week. The two things I would not have minded to skip over are shaving my beard of 4 years because it irritates her face and thighs, and domestic discipline. My wife is not into S&M so when she punishes me, it is all about the pain and no sexual element to it as there was with our girlfriend. She hit me harder than my wife can, but it was done as part of our sex play and not just for inflicting pain.
So I am wondering how many others have used chastity as a springboard to inject some D/s into their non sex life? How much control does your wife have now? My wife rejected my offers to enter into a FLR. She said I have done a great job for the last 45 years and we should not let a sexual fetish interfere with that. She is right of course. Plus I am like Sheldon on The Big Bang while she is like Penny. It works out well for us as we tend to balance each other out.
At this point I do not know if I will like being told what to do outside of the bedroom. I am very alpha and run a company where I tell people what to do daily. I do not like being told to do things. I tend to push back. However, I do enjoy new experiences, even those I do not like. Time will tell. I really miss my beard since I am on my way to male pattern baldness and the beard evened my face out.
After about 4 or 5 years of chastity we are extending a sexual fetish outside of the bedroom for the first time. My wife has a new found confidence and taste of dominance from chastity. We are going to do it the same way we went from 2 weeks of orgasm denial to 4 months and now unlimited. Take baby steps. She is basically treating me like her dog. She tells me what to do and after I do it, she says good boy or bad boy. Paddling my butt is now standard before we have sex. The length and severity will depend on if I was a bad boy that week. The two things I would not have minded to skip over are shaving my beard of 4 years because it irritates her face and thighs, and domestic discipline. My wife is not into S&M so when she punishes me, it is all about the pain and no sexual element to it as there was with our girlfriend. She hit me harder than my wife can, but it was done as part of our sex play and not just for inflicting pain.
So I am wondering how many others have used chastity as a springboard to inject some D/s into their non sex life? How much control does your wife have now? My wife rejected my offers to enter into a FLR. She said I have done a great job for the last 45 years and we should not let a sexual fetish interfere with that. She is right of course. Plus I am like Sheldon on The Big Bang while she is like Penny. It works out well for us as we tend to balance each other out.
At this point I do not know if I will like being told what to do outside of the bedroom. I am very alpha and run a company where I tell people what to do daily. I do not like being told to do things. I tend to push back. However, I do enjoy new experiences, even those I do not like. Time will tell. I really miss my beard since I am on my way to male pattern baldness and the beard evened my face out.