The Wife's Orgasm Plan

[michaelnmelissa]

Not that she has a definitive one for us, but she has been thinking that a 10 to 1 ratio for us is a good average.

Our ratio for the year is 16 to 2.5 so she says we have to balance that out. The .5 orgasm was when she made me come while still in the cage. It was good, but still frustrating since I could not get long and I could not thrust and experience it fully.

Now she says when she gets to 30 I can get another .5 one in my cage. Then, when she gets to 40 I can have another full blown orgasm.

Maybe.

At the rate we're going the .5 should be around June and the full one sometime in late July or August.

She did tell me that she has already come more in 2.5 months than I will come in the next 2-3 years.

Michael

[wishful4]

Wow! Sounds like the lady has a plan. I was thinking recently that I am on track to have only 6 or 7 orgasms this year, if i'm lucky. I get no ruined orgasms. It's amazing that, last year, I sometimes would masturbate that much in two weeks. It is also amazing that I am happier than ever, and our relationship is getting better and better.

[michaelnmelissa]

Wishful,

I do get ruined orgasms. This is because Melissa likes intercourse and she loves to feel me release in her and still stay hard.

The last one I had was exceptionally frustrating. I had to stop thrusting and try not to orgasm. After 10 seconds or so I released inside her. Then I had to continue to thrust until she came. I never even got close to orgasm again. The frustration of being almost there and then having it cut off was off the charts.

But now that she's learned there are cock sheaths that will let me fuck her while being denied (mostly) feeling anything...I may not be having many more ruined ones in the future.

Michael

[celticqueens_sub]

Not that she has a definitive one for us, but she has been thinking that a 10 to 1 ratio for us is a good average.

Our ratio for the year is 16 to 2.5 so she says we have to balance that out. The .5 orgasm was when she made me come while still in the cage. It was good, but still frustrating since I could not get long and I could not thrust and experience it fully.

Now she says when she gets to 30 I can get another .5 one in my cage. Then, when she gets to 40 I can have another full blown orgasm.

Maybe.

At the rate we're going the .5 should be around June and the full one sometime in late July or August.

She did tell me that she has already come more in 2.5 months than I will come in the next 2-3 years.

Michael

We kinda messed about with this idea of a ratio. What we found was that I then pestered CQ for sex so she would cum, get to the number and then I would be allowed to cum. We abandoned this fairly swiftly....

I hope it works better for you two.

Rgds

CQs

[michaelnmelissa]

CQs,

I thought the same thing about the ratio and pushing for sex to get her number up there. But, right now the idea makes her happy so we're going with it.

If I do get too pushy about it she will do what she did last night: hold me by my device and spank my balls over and over. It gets my attention fast and reminds me she sets the pace.

Michael

[celticqueens_sub]

CQs,

I thought the same thing about the ratio and pushing for sex to get her number up there. But, right now the idea makes her happy so we're going with it.

If I do get too pushy about it she will do what she did last night: hold me by my device and spank my balls over and over. It gets my attention fast and reminds me she sets the pace.

Michael

That'll do it!!! Yowzer! It is all bout making her happy, I couldn't agree more

[Tom Allen]

We kinda messed about with this idea of a ratio. What we found was that I then pestered CQ for sex so she would cum, get to the number and then I would be allowed to cum. We abandoned this fairly swiftly....

Right, because the ratio takes away the KH's control.

I mean, it depends on how you want to play it out. Every year it seems that Mrs. Edge gets more and more into having complete control, so the games, ratios, etc., just don't work for us. But they might work for couples in which the KH feels a little guilty.

[celticqueens_sub]

We kinda messed about with this idea of a ratio. What we found was that I then pestered CQ for sex so she would cum, get to the number and then I would be allowed to cum. We abandoned this fairly swiftly....

Right, because the ratio takes away the KH's control.

I mean, it depends on how you want to play it out. Every year it seems that Mrs. Edge gets more and more into having complete control, so the games, ratios, etc., just don't work for us. But they might work for couples in which the KH feels a little guilty.

Tom... That was what I was trying to say, thanks for being the voice of clarity.. Anyway if it works for Michael and Melissa that's the important factor.

[Locked by LRC]

We have used the ratio system at times. The twist we have is that when the number of orgasm's for her are met it only means that I am eligible for an orgasm. It doesn't mean I am going to get one right away. The #1 rule still stands. Don't say "It's my turn to cum". Begging, as always is still okay.

[Dev]

We don't have a ratio but we do have an orgasm glass, so I dumped it out this morning and counted the coins. There were 4 quarters and 1 franc which represented 4 orgasms and 1 ruined orgasm for Ab, plus 33 other coins (dimes, nickels and pennies). Not counting the franc, that puts us at an 8:1 ratio so sort of like what Michael's wife has in mind.

I had informally thought 1 orgasm per month for Ab for the year. He had two in January (his birthday) and this month the ruined orgasm (franc) and another one (the quarter) back to back (within 20 minutes of each other). That was super HOT and I wouldn't mind doing that again to him. That also reminds me I had meant to write a blog post about it...

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