Ruined Orgasms

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Pah! Updates from phones. Bane of my life. Useful but such a pain in the proverbial.
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Hi I must admit that I do let bez orgasm however however now make him ask before he orgasms could be fun.I also find that making him pleasure me with his tongue whilst locked up really frustrates him and this gives me a hot orgasm . Sally
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Sally wrote: and this gives me a hot orgasm . Sally
and this gives me a hot nogasm. How am I supposed to get any work done this afternoon with posts like this?

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Sandy and I once did a two month stretch of only spoiled orgasms. It was one of the most fun and insanely frustrating experiences I have ever had. I really enjoyed it, and often the frustration would burst out in a fit of giggle.

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I ruin my hub's orgasms sometimes. There are some not so helpful hints and tips out there but it's pretty straightforward. Use your hand and then at the point of no return - simply stop. Everything just lamely dribbles out and the feedback from hub is pretty immediate. I do it for one of two reasons. Either my hub has hit that point of frustration that something needs to happen so this is a way of helping him get over it without giving him an orgasm or it's punishment because he's been pestering for an orgasm.

One post I read advised holding a thumb over the uthethra to block it during ejaculation. That sounds medically dubious to me. For the non penis carrying amongst us, I imagine it's kind of like pinching your nose shut during a sneeze and risking rupturing something...................
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Celtic Queen wrote:One post I read advised holding a thumb over the uthethra to block it during ejaculation. That sounds medically dubious to me.
The ejaculate redirects back into the bladder and is expelled during urination. From everything I've read, it's harmless. You feel a little pinch, that's all.

I can say from experience that the abandoned-type ruined orgasm is more frustrating than the blocked kind.
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Keeps the Missus's hand a damn sight cleaner too :-)
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Atone wrote:
Sally wrote: and this gives me a hot orgasm . Sally
and this gives me a hot nogasm. How am I supposed to get any work done this afternoon with posts like this?

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Sorry Atone I didn't mean to stop you working I will tone my relies down in future Sally
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Sally wrote: I will tone my relies down in future Sally
please don't

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Tonight I've had my first ruined orgasm totally by accident. I have gotten very good at having sex without me coming. Tonight, I went one stroke too long. I pulled out but it was too late. About two seconds later a large amount of fluid exited my penis and there was absolutely no sexual feeling whatsoever. Today is day 39 of a projected 42 day lockup.