If your keyholder might be here...

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Aarkey
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If your keyholder might be here...

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Yesterday my keyholder showed me the this forum and said she had joined here. Immediately I was insanely excited that she's looking to learn about the power she now has... but also a little bit panicked - as I realized that I never censored anything I ever said here.

Not that I've ever said anything I regret either (I read back a bit and checked... though I can't go past page 1 b/c of the hackers and the link issue we're having here.)

But it got me thinking, if and how will it affect my posting here. So, for those of you who have keyholders who are active here - how do you deal with it? Does it affect anything at all for you?
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Early in my gf did a lot of googling but I don't think she joined this site. If she did that would definitely be interesting. I don't think she realizes how much time and thought I've put into it. Maybe if she realized she would be more proactive.
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My wife, Keeperof55 joined here back in 2012. She mainly looks in on the KH's side and has made 37 postings since joining. She told me once that she gets a good chuckle reading how other KH's are handling (or not handling) their chaste husbands. It's more reading than posting for her. Unlike my daily log-in's, she's good for once or twice a month. Sometimes she will talk to me about something I've posted but it's rare. It's never been an issue for me nor has it ever compromised what I have wanted to say.

I tried once early on to "plant the seed" and post a suggestion on something I would like to see happen. Well she knew exactly what I was up to and said to me "saw your posting on the CF and I was actually thinking about doing that to you but now that I see you would like it to happen, trust me IT WON'T!"

Maybe I should be posting that I REALLY like having my ass paddled when I screw up. :lol:

It's becoming more and more a FLR and she's a strong woman. 8-)
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Oof... interesting question.

I doubt my KH would spent much time here because there are too many scenarios that she would consider frightening and that would be the end for her.

I would probably tone down my journey blog but I would otherwise be thrilled that she had that much interest and willingness to learn from others. She would benefit from interacting with other KHs but we're quite a ways from her being comfortable doing that.

She made quite a fuss when she learned I was reading about chastity and checking out various devices (some forums are very explicit).
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Grizzly228 wrote:Early in... Maybe if she realized she would be more proactive.
I hope you can find that with her, though perhaps more important - I hope you can find joy, or at least peace, with the level of activity you already have.
locked4her55 wrote:My wife, Keeperof55 joined here... Maybe I should be posting that I REALLY like having my ass paddled when I screw up. It's becoming more and more a FLR and she's a strong woman.
You're definitely one of the lucky ones! Of course a real spanking only starts after the receiver wants it to end. Total game changer ;)
sirmebane wrote:I doubt my KH would spent much time here because there are too many scenarios that she would consider frightening and that would be the end for her. She would benefit from interacting with other KHs but we're quite a ways from her being comfortable doing that.
Slow and steady is definitely better, we have heard countless stories about women getting overwhelmed by the years of hopes, expectations and fantasies that we throw at their feet. I hope she starts to find the bright spots to it. I agree 100% about the benefits of interaction with other like minded women. My KH is part of a "FemDom collective" and the mutual support and encouragement (and vetting of potential play partners) that these women give each other is truly an awesome thing.
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Mrs. Twisted is unlikely to come here, so I really haven't censored much, except to withhold mention of some aspects of kink that are...more esoteric...and which, I fear might squick even the kinky people here.

However, the idea that she might someday venture here or otherwise learn of some of the things I've written (preferably without my knowledge) and choose to apply them is quite erotic.
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Post by Michele »

LoL well I'm obviously here! :)
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