[Afrinadian] Our new lifestyle begins
Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2015 12:50 am
A and I have been living chastity for about 6 years now. Previously, we had a CB6000s which, while being a generic device, fit me quite well. The issues we had with it was having to be unlocked to clean and A didn't like the look of it and the process of taking it off meant the moment was all but over and sometimes she ended up deciding against PIV because it was too much bother.
After several years of good use, the CB finally broke. Being without work at the time, we were watching our pennies quite closely so decided that chastity would have to wait till I was employed again. I really missed being locked up during this time as I’ve always had a bit of an issue with masterbation and I REALLY like the idea that A has control over our sex life. I’m in management in my professional life so it’s nice to take the passenger seat for a change and allow someone else to lead.
For the past few months, even before we ordered our new device, A has been claiming ‘pirate’ as hers which is a big leap forward for her as she’s quite vanilla. She’s not quite ready to join a forum or read any books, but I’ve learned through painful trial and error that you cannot and must not rush your KH ESPECIALLY if they have a conservative background and personality.
So it was that she decided it was time to take the leap and buy a better device, something she actually liked. A wanted me to find a better alternative to the CB, so after comparing various makers, we settled on MM due to price and reputation. A was eager to take a look at the design options and spend a very brief time deciding what she wanted. She more or less clicked through the photos on the website and said, “That one.” and ordered it. We settled on a MM Jailbird as she no longer has to let me out to maintain her `toy ` as she calls it, she likes the look of it and she still has access to what she wants.
Admittedly, I was also looking forward to being locked up again so had taken some painstaking time measuring and remeasuring myself to ensure a proper fit. So when A said “That one” all I had to do was read off the measurements to her and it was done. It was somewhat scary laying in bed that night knowing that in due course my life was in for a substantial change. I found out that night that A is a little more into this than I expected, though I didn’t know to what extreme.
A couple of days later is when I started to hear things like, “You like to think that I’m in charge now, but wait, you have no idea what’s coming.” and “enjoy your freedom now, you’re going to be locked up at least 90% of the time.” and last night after she finally had me locked up I asked what duration I’m in for, her response was, “indefinitely -- or at least till I decide what I want to do.” (A has always said though that sex in our relationship is important, so I don’t imagine being welded in as it were)
The other change that has taken place is that I am not allowed to have any input into our sex life as she wants to calls the shots now. Also, I’m to stay clean shaven and the dishes are to be done and the kitchen tidy when she gets home from work. I have been told that more expectations will follow.
I've been a bit impatient to get locked up again as I enjoy giving her all the attention and not expecting anything in return. But because I've been pestering her, she's refused to lock me up which has been mentally excruciating ...till yesterday (Dec-15-2015)
After several years of good use, the CB finally broke. Being without work at the time, we were watching our pennies quite closely so decided that chastity would have to wait till I was employed again. I really missed being locked up during this time as I’ve always had a bit of an issue with masterbation and I REALLY like the idea that A has control over our sex life. I’m in management in my professional life so it’s nice to take the passenger seat for a change and allow someone else to lead.
For the past few months, even before we ordered our new device, A has been claiming ‘pirate’ as hers which is a big leap forward for her as she’s quite vanilla. She’s not quite ready to join a forum or read any books, but I’ve learned through painful trial and error that you cannot and must not rush your KH ESPECIALLY if they have a conservative background and personality.
So it was that she decided it was time to take the leap and buy a better device, something she actually liked. A wanted me to find a better alternative to the CB, so after comparing various makers, we settled on MM due to price and reputation. A was eager to take a look at the design options and spend a very brief time deciding what she wanted. She more or less clicked through the photos on the website and said, “That one.” and ordered it. We settled on a MM Jailbird as she no longer has to let me out to maintain her `toy ` as she calls it, she likes the look of it and she still has access to what she wants.
Admittedly, I was also looking forward to being locked up again so had taken some painstaking time measuring and remeasuring myself to ensure a proper fit. So when A said “That one” all I had to do was read off the measurements to her and it was done. It was somewhat scary laying in bed that night knowing that in due course my life was in for a substantial change. I found out that night that A is a little more into this than I expected, though I didn’t know to what extreme.
A couple of days later is when I started to hear things like, “You like to think that I’m in charge now, but wait, you have no idea what’s coming.” and “enjoy your freedom now, you’re going to be locked up at least 90% of the time.” and last night after she finally had me locked up I asked what duration I’m in for, her response was, “indefinitely -- or at least till I decide what I want to do.” (A has always said though that sex in our relationship is important, so I don’t imagine being welded in as it were)
The other change that has taken place is that I am not allowed to have any input into our sex life as she wants to calls the shots now. Also, I’m to stay clean shaven and the dishes are to be done and the kitchen tidy when she gets home from work. I have been told that more expectations will follow.
I've been a bit impatient to get locked up again as I enjoy giving her all the attention and not expecting anything in return. But because I've been pestering her, she's refused to lock me up which has been mentally excruciating ...till yesterday (Dec-15-2015)