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Re: [onlyhers4ever] our journey

Postby Gymgenius » Fri Jun 09, 2017 3:27 pm

This could be the start of the greatest and most intoxicating journey of your life....but not if you rush your wife into it.

Patience will be well rewarded.
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Re: [onlyhers4ever] our journey

Postby Onlyhers4ever » Sun Jul 09, 2017 8:46 am

Thank you Gymgenius for the encouraging words. After nearly a month and a half of being unlocked I decided to once again put on my Jailbird and see what happens. While everyone else was celebrating "independence Day" here in the USA I privately took away my own independence. It took a couple days before my wife took notice but when she did she seemed to be ok with it. Then, on Friday morning, while we were holding each other in bed I summoned up the courage to make a suggestion that we partner my orgasm denial with weight loss. Her initial response was something along the line of "that's torture" but she seems to be open to the idea and has now taken possession of the keys (security screwdrivers). My initial goal is 10 pounds which at a 2 pound per week pace would mean that I will be locked up for over a month. I really hope that this works on a couple fronts. First, that it does indeed motivate me to lose some much needed weight and secondly, that it introduces a positive aspect to chastity that my wife will appreciate. I am going to lay off any talk about T&D with her and just see how this progresses on its own. Wish me luck.
Locked in MM Jailbird since July 22nd.
Can't remember last real orgasm.
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Re: [onlyhers4ever] our journey

Postby Onlyhers4ever » Fri Jul 14, 2017 6:09 am

I'm happy to report that one week into this new chastity weight loss program I have already dropped 5 pounds! I'm not expecting this kind of results every week but I'll definitely take it. It is amazing what a little motivation can do for you. I'll have to come up with a good answer for when someone starts to notice my weight loss and asks me how I did it. Can't really say that "I had my wife lock up my cock." Guess I better stick with "I cut out snacks , ate smaller portions, and started going to the gym."
Locked in MM Jailbird since July 22nd.
Can't remember last real orgasm.
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Re: [onlyhers4ever] our journey

Postby Onlyhers4ever » Sat Jul 22, 2017 6:13 pm

I have some positive news to share this week. After about two weeks of having me locked up my wife admitted to me that she actually likes this "a little." May not sound like much but to me this was a huge step in our journey. I've noticed that while locked my wife seems to initiate sexual contact much more frequently. I think this is due to fact that she doesn't feel pressured into having to continue into something more. I believe this is probably one of the biggest advantages of this lifestyle to our key holders. It gives them the excuse to just flirt.

Yesterday morning I was treated to my first release in over two weeks. My wife unlocked me and then proceeded to giving me a ruined orgasm. It was only afterward that i stepped on the scale and discovered that I had indeed reached my first goal of losing 10 lbs. Had i known this just a little while earlier I could have asked for the real thing!

I had to rush off to work so I didn't take time right away to lock back up (not sure I could have anyway in the condition I was in.) That night before going to bed I considered locking myself up but decided to give myself one night to recover and to see if she would bring it up. This is her weekend to work so we were both up early and I made sure to lock up and handed her the keys as she was heading out the door. I was a little nervous as to what her reaction might be but was grateful that she enthusiastically accepted the key.
Locked in MM Jailbird since July 22nd.
Can't remember last real orgasm.
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Re: [onlyhers4ever] our journey

Postby happilylockedman » Sun Jul 23, 2017 6:41 am

I'm happy for you that your wife is starting to like having you in chastity. It sounds like my wife and I are just a few months ahead of you. My wife and I never used to talk about sex. Now it's different. From time to time, when I think she's in a receptive mood, I ask if we can talk. I start out talking about myself and how I'm doing in chastity. Maybe I'm particularly horny. Maybe I'm feeling especially glad that she's with me on our journey. Maybe relate some amusing experience I had concerning my device. Then I ask her how she's doing with me being in chastity. More and more, she's opening up and sharing what's on her mind. I'm loving the closeness.
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