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She came multiple times with her Hitachi, and me at her side. This was just the fist time in a few weeks she thought about penetration, but we didn't do it.

I am on Day 12 of orgasm denial (OD). It is very intense when we are together, but I am feeling antsy and easily distracted. The first 11 days, she had a low sex drive and really didn't want me being aggressive. This morning, she said she would have been totally interested in sex if we hadn't alread...

It wasn't exactly chastity, but the sensory deprivation scene was a huge success. It showed I could play a submissive role without putting any pressure on her to be "dominant".

We are going to do the most vanillas BD I could think of---two hours of sensory deprivation in spare bedroom while she watches whatever she wants on TV. It's vanillas because it puts no expectation on her.

Health problems + economic problems + anything else affecting confidence cannot be fun. I am glad things are starting to look up for you. I enjoy reading your posts. I hope she is feeling better, and you enjoy your work,\. We have careers, child rearing, and aging parents to sap us. Her being intere...

We just committed to strict denial for about 30 days (Father's Day). We are very episodic in our play---sometimes very intense for long stretches. Sometimes it gets put on hiatus for long stretches. This time, I am feeling overly stressed out about life and need to occupy my brain space on something...

I do not buy that sexual behavior has changed much after 5-10 years, with millions of years of things humping each other leading to me and you being here today. Sex is primal. Yes, society's attitudes change. None of us wants to believe we are assholes when we are 18 or 22, but age can give us persp...

I love the fantasy of public humiliation but it is so hard to find the right time and place. I like the idea of covert humiliation that is hidden in plain sight. I went out with my wife once wearing very androgynous women's clothing. Nothing that looked "fetish" but a lose observer might s...

The potential outcomes have been covered in a scene of this important documentary on airport security:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAargSCXQaQ

Google "Compersion" which is a poly concept, but still.