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I’m very sad (don’t worry; not that sad). There’s been no mention of anything. Feels like square one, and I have no desire to hash this out. No desire to open communications on this. I can feel myself going into my cave, disconnecting, giving up. I don’t know how to move forward, or move on. I’m stu...

We gave up on that. When I used a lock, I would put the cage on, leaving the hasp open, and she would click the hasp closed. Now that I use a security screw, it’s even worse, so there’s now way she wants to deal with that. Sometimes, she’ll start to take it off, but that usually ends up with me fini...

I recommend carrying one. I had to make a trip to an emergency room one day, and I didn’t know what all would be involved. Closest was ten minutes away, but I was at work, so had to drive 40 minutes home, and then ten minutes to another emergency room after I took off the cage. The trip to the emerg...

Special trip, lots of sex, couple of good orgasms. Not sure where we stand, but I’m pretty sure the denial period is over.

Did not use the cage at all, and I really don’t want to ask why. I don’t think there’s any answer that won’t just make me sad.

We had a couple of fun sexual encounters over the past weekend, no mention of orgasm for me. I really enjoy having sex with her and the subject of my orgasm just not coming up. Just mutual understanding that it’s not going to happen. In one week, we will leave for our special trip together. We’re ce...

Last night was a date night to celebrate a milestone in our marriage, and ended with a long and sexy entanglement where I was permitted another orgasm. I know that I will definitely be denied for the next three weeks or so, when we have a special trip planned.

Saturday night, she gave me a present. A lubed hand job, tons of teasing, and tons of edges, until she finally, and very slowly, dragged me over the edge into a full orgasm.

Then a reminder that I’m still on restriction.

Nice encounter last night. It had been an evening on the couch, and “yeah, we can watch one more episode…” So when we laid down and cuddled, it was pretty late for two people that had to be up early. She started touching me gently, and said that we needed an evening soon where we didn’t watch one mo...

Next time I want to write about a “good start”, someone please kick me. Health and the outside world meant nothing much happened until a couple of nights ago, but we have managed two encounters in three nights. Ten days without her having any interest kills me. When it’s a health issue, I’m definite...

In my experience with orgasms … it takes about two weeks of denial to get me to the first of my personal plateaus, and then around the fourth or fifth week, I hit another, better, plateau. Anywhere in that first time period, an orgasm will give me that same “drop” feeling you experienced. But after ...