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by cottus
Tue Feb 09, 2016 12:09 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Superbowl cost me an orgasm
Replies: 2
Views: 1644

Re: Superbowl cost me an orgasm

As a die-hard Patriots fan, neither of you get any sympathy from me. ;)
by cottus
Sat Jan 30, 2016 7:52 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Duration until good sleep
Replies: 10
Views: 7187

Re: Duration until good sleep

I often take a nightcap and erections only bother me in the morning if I end up on my stomach. Sometimes I get woken up at around 8 AM from the pressure rather than the pain.
by cottus
Tue Dec 08, 2015 12:37 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Any embarrassing stories
Replies: 14
Views: 42140

Re: Any embarrassing stories

During Thanksgiving celebrations, I tried to keep my distance with the hugs and my mother had none of that. I'm positive that she felt my cage and the rest of the evening was really, really awkward between the two of us.
by cottus
Sun Dec 06, 2015 12:24 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Spreading this wonderful movement
Replies: 25
Views: 9512

Re: Spreading this wonderful movement

Keep orgasm denial weird, baby! I agree with this sentiment. Niche interests and fetishes are best when discovered on their own, not popularized by the media. Also, I visit 4chan frequently and all the crazy conspiracy theorists there would ruin all the boards and never shut up about a plot to femi...
by cottus
Tue Dec 01, 2015 11:24 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Welp, It Finally Happened
Replies: 2
Views: 2365

Welp, It Finally Happened

After a month of testing the waters, my keyholder has now decided to keep me locked up 24/7, and that I won't be coming out "for a very, very long time"... which drives me wild. Our last test lasted 2 weeks and she considered that short, so I guess I'm living on prayer. :lol: Thanks to eve...
by cottus
Mon Nov 30, 2015 11:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Punishment
Replies: 11
Views: 6092

Re: Punishment

Usually it's restriction of pornographic access, extended lockups, extended orgasm dates, spanking of the buttocks or testicles, extended prostate milking without release, and some other humiliation-related stuff.
by cottus
Mon Nov 30, 2015 12:18 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Reveres Roles
Replies: 17
Views: 6176

Re: Reveres Roles

I have considered discussing role reversal with my current lady since I vacillate between dominant and submissive. Then again, the dynamic is different when you're married versus when you're just dating (the latter being my case).
by cottus
Sat Nov 28, 2015 7:49 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: One big downside of male chastity
Replies: 13
Views: 7268

Re: One big downside of male chastity

Personally, I would be very disappointed if my keyholder rarely flaunted her status to me. As others have noted, however, it's all about communication. My present holder knows I like to talk about it and she is more than happy to indulge me.
by cottus
Fri Nov 27, 2015 2:59 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Holy Trainer
Replies: 8
Views: 5531

Re: Holy Trainer

I've tried several chastity devices and found the Holy Trainer to be the most comfortable and most private. It doesn't have a lock that protrudes out, so does not show through your pants. It took some time for my wife to learn to easily lock and unlock the device (its a bit tricky) but once she got...
by cottus
Wed Nov 25, 2015 6:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locks Rusting
Replies: 7
Views: 3729

Re: Locks Rusting

Use any kind of lubricating oil then with the key open and close it 10 times or so. I just would not use oils from the kichen they are heavy and I think build up would occure I'm just leaving them in a white vinegar solution for a day and cleaning it off. White vinegar is good for getting off rust ...