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by tqbartleby
Fri Aug 21, 2015 2:21 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [tqbartleby] Transitioning to locked chastity
Replies: 4
Views: 4250

Re: [tqbartleby] Transitioning to locked chastity

Next day... my wife is cheerfully interested and has taken charge of the keys. "You didn't lose those keys, I hope," I said as we prepared for bed. "What keys?" she aked. Ho ho. She thought the device looked "weird" but I said we'd get used to it. I slept with it on. Ni...
by tqbartleby
Thu Aug 20, 2015 12:14 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [tqbartleby] Transitioning to locked chastity
Replies: 4
Views: 4250

Re: [tqbartleby] Transitioning to locked chastity

It's been a few months... The counterfeit CB-6000 turned out, as I was warned, to be sub-par. It was quickly laid aside. Honor-system chastity has continued, but with the occasional cheating. I confessed the last one to my wife, and she disciplined me rather briskly with a bath brush. In September a...
by tqbartleby
Wed Aug 12, 2015 3:15 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Comparisons--some summer musings
Replies: 3
Views: 1659

Re: Comparisons--some summer musings

Thanks, Edgewood! On some Tumblr porn site I saw an image that showed, side by side, a man with an erection and a man in a chastity cage. There was a slogan about the difference between a man in chastity and a "real man". I found it titillating. A man in chastity is of course as "real...
by tqbartleby
Tue Aug 11, 2015 8:10 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Comparisons--some summer musings
Replies: 3
Views: 1659

Comparisons--some summer musings

This summer my wife and I took a three-week vacation, mostly camping, with another couple who have been our very good friends for many years. The vacation was in a far-off land, and we started in a hotel for a couple of nights while we fitted ourselves out for a camping adventure in the bush. While ...
by tqbartleby
Wed Jun 10, 2015 4:45 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Why Humiliation
Replies: 9
Views: 3914

Re: Why Humiliation

For me, the submissive FLR thing is very hot but not *just* hot. It's also somehow right for us--it corresponds to deep-seated aspects of our psyches. I have a submissive nature, have recognized it, and go for it. My wife has more of a dominant nature and is settling into it more and more. (We have ...
by tqbartleby
Tue Jun 09, 2015 6:13 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Key holders please read
Replies: 4
Views: 2628

Re: Key holders please read

Here's hoping some keyholders share their stories here. As an aspiring lockee I'm interested to see their testimony, too.
by tqbartleby
Tue Jun 09, 2015 6:06 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Why Humiliation
Replies: 9
Views: 3914

Re: Why Humiliation

There are kinks, and then there's love. I think they are independent parameters. There are certainly men who fantasize about being submissive and are on the lookout for someone to dominate them, whom they don't even know yet let alone love; there are men who would like chastity play in a session wit...
by tqbartleby
Fri Jun 05, 2015 7:52 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Should I keep going?
Replies: 21
Views: 6755

Re: Should I keep going?

One thing I have thought about is that she has alot of responsibility at work, and maybe being responsible for me either being locked or unlocked is something she just doesn't want to deal with. Yes, this is a thorny and interesting issue. To want to submit is not the same thing as to want to see h...
by tqbartleby
Thu Jun 04, 2015 2:49 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Inexpensive devices...
Replies: 19
Views: 7122

Re: Inexpensive devices...

Thanks for sharing. That's a great story. With my wife and me, it was a little bit the other way around. Our sex drives are pretty well matched, but I discovered dominant/submisive relationships in much the same way you discovered chastity, and brought it up with her and we eventually started doing ...
by tqbartleby
Wed Jun 03, 2015 7:00 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [tqbartleby] Transitioning to locked chastity
Replies: 4
Views: 4250

Re: [tqbartleby] Transitioning to locked chastity

My first chastity device arrived--just the morning my wife was leaving in a hurry for an overnight business trip, so I didn't even get a chance to show it to her! It's a CB-6000s, or rather, it was sold as that on ebay. At about a fifth of the price of the manufacturer's price, it is, I'm assured, a...