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Thanks Sam3655 . I'm happy to hear it works for you and her. Yesterday I thought about how I presented it to her. And I had the idea that maybe I could have told her about it much better. Especially since she has been dating tantra men before me. And I know that she misses the gentle touching, the m...

Ok, so I'm not exactly new to chastity. I've played with previous girlfriends before. At one point 2-3 week lockups were not uncommon. But's it's been some years since I actually did anything serious. (and that goddamn sleep has always been very, very difficult!) Fast forward to now. Two years ago I...

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Just got a cheap chinese steel cage for testing. Comfortable and I can wear it for hours. I did notice that my balls got cold when I went to bed so I took it off (didn't sleep with it).

And thoughts on how small is too small? Warning signs?

Can anyone identify this cage?



I found it in this thread on Tumblr.

noid51, your idea of guiding her hand is a horrible idea. That's topping from the bottom. Remember, first of all this has to be fun for her. So you must appreciate whatever kind of spanking she decides on. This will give give her freedom to do this at her speed. At some other time when you are commu...

I like the Corey Jay harness, very masculine looking and it has room for the cage:

(Warning: Gay webshop)

http://www.mr-s-leather.com/D353/corey- ... rness.html

An other idea to introduce some more sexual control on her part would be to ask her to let you come when you are having sex. For me I often think that I would like to have sex for a long ting and really give her everything she wants. But when I get close it's more difficult to hold on to that decisi...

Thanks for the answers, I'll see if I can get a smaller ring. If I'm lucky it'll help.

Like many others I have some problems with my cage pulling on my balls when I'm sleeping. My cock pushes the cage away from my body and I wake up with pain in my balls somewhere between 4-7 times every night. I've tried using oil, no oil, hanging the cage low and hanging the cage high. See the image...