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by prthomas
Mon Feb 28, 2011 11:07 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: When your partner is ovulating?
Replies: 20
Views: 7343

Re: When your partner is ovulating?

Kiki wrote:Saying "there are good reasons for it but I won't post them here but I am right" is NOT a valid point, and it is getting old.

I don't want to threadjack but it needed to be said.
FWIW, I posted my response in the Member's Lounge.
by prthomas
Fri Feb 25, 2011 9:56 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: When your partner is ovulating?
Replies: 20
Views: 7343

Re: When your partner is ovulating?

Well, we're going to have to agree to disagree on this matter. I would love to address your points, but this is not the forum in which to do it. Perhaps we can open a thread somewhere else, but I am okay with leaving it alone. I come here to see how others in the real world are living in chastity wi...
by prthomas
Thu Feb 24, 2011 4:18 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity Symbol
Replies: 79
Views: 47544

Re: Chastity Symbol

Well, there's the arrow pointing up with a box around it, but that seems to relate to being "owned" or a slave. That doesn't exactly fit everyone here.

Something discreet, but still conveys "I'm locked up"... gotta think about that one...
by prthomas
Wed Feb 23, 2011 2:25 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: When your partner is ovulating?
Replies: 20
Views: 7343

Re: When your partner is ovulating?

I'm sorry. I did not mean to ignore your third point. I'm not prescribing... just making sure the facts are straight. For those who understand and use NFP properly, the erratic nuances in a woman's cycle is managed exceptionally well. NFP doesn't predict anything. You make daily observations, use a ...
by prthomas
Wed Feb 23, 2011 1:03 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: When your partner is ovulating?
Replies: 20
Views: 7343

Re: When your partner is ovulating?

"Natural Family Planning" is indeed a "great way of planning births" but it doesn't work so well for those desiring not to conceive. It is playing with fire. Absolutely incorrect statement. The Creighton Model has a plan-effectiveness of 99.5% with a user-effectiveness ranging 9...
by prthomas
Wed Feb 23, 2011 10:18 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: When your partner is ovulating?
Replies: 20
Views: 7343

Re: When your partner is ovulating?

The fact that women have a peak in sexual desire when being fertile is one of the reasons I don't buy into "natural" contraception methods aka Vatican Roulette. Natural Family Planning, of which there are many models that can be practiced, is not only one of the most effective means of pl...
by prthomas
Tue Feb 22, 2011 3:35 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: After 4 months: Chastity or celibacy?
Replies: 5
Views: 4479

Re: After 4 months: Chastity or celibacy?

As to item #4, is she afraid because it is something she wants, or something you want?
by prthomas
Tue Feb 22, 2011 9:51 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Man, I Want To Masturbate
Replies: 5
Views: 3039

Re: Man, I Want To Masturbate

No, it's not easy, but well worth the benefit. I cannot tell you how much it has changed things for my wife and I. Once we stop acting selfishly, and masturbation is a very selfish act, our ability to give more to our spouses increases tenfold. I just have to keep remembering that myself a few times...
by prthomas
Fri Feb 18, 2011 2:52 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: frustrated with urination
Replies: 12
Views: 11627

Re: frustrated with urination

I have gotten very adept at using urinals with my CB6000s. The only time I won't is if there is no privacy divider. The plastic doesn't show, but that lock can be an eye-catcher! I can appreciate Ab being meticulous about cleanliness. My wife lets me out whenever I feel the need for a complete scrub...
by prthomas
Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:21 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: frustrated with urination
Replies: 12
Views: 11627

Re: frustrated with urination

Also, keep a few q-tips in your pocket everywhere you go. They come in handy if things get really stuck.